KirbyGram Winter 2022

KirbyGram Winter 2022

Dear Friends,

It’s been just over three years since we lost our beloved Kirby.  With this profound loss, followed by two years of Covid restrictions and isolation, Brad and I have come to realize, even more so than before, how fast time is flying by – days matter and you can’t take them back.  Our time spent with each other and family is invaluable.  Therefore, in this our last KirbyGram, we want to express our sincere, heartfelt thanks for the 29 years of kind words and gestures you have shown our family

The past two years I have written of hope, ever-changing yet ever-present, and gratitude.   Hope has given us confidence in our direction, and gratitude our force to transform a devastating diagnosis.    You validated our hope when we needed it most with your unfaltering commitment to our mission of “A Cure for Kirby,” which enabled us to feel a depth of gratitude we did not know possible in our darkest times.   You’ve always been our light, illuminating our path on this journey.

It was your support that made it possible for the Foundation to fund the basic science 29 years ago that allowed Sanfilippo to be included in all the most promising methodologies of treatment as they emerged.  This achievement over the years, with continued advancements, have led to the multiple clinical trials currently underway around the world.  An enduring gift of hope to families today.

Our continued hope for Kirby’s legacy of a cure and for the lives of children afflicted today shines brightly because of your commitment to create change.  Our profound gratitude runs deep and will never be forgotten.

Brad and I wish you all an abundance of happy.

Sue and Brad Wilson

Research Update


Below is an update from Dr. Mitchell Drumm, who is leading the team working with Sanfilippo at Case Western’s Research Institute for Children’s Health.   As Dr. Drumm previously stated when talking about his enthusiasm to add Sanfilippo, “Quite simply, this is why the Research Institute for Children’s Health exists.  Our researchers may be scientists, but they are also parents.”  We are excited by the potential the Research Institute’s work holds for children afflicted today.  As Sue states, “Being a small part of Dr. Drumm and his team’s efforts to help children afflicted with Sanfilippo is an honor and privilege.  Dr. Drumm’s compassion for children is only matched by the integrity of his work.”

Our wish is that his work encourages others within the Sanfilippo community to speak with him, learn more about his methods and goals, and join in our efforts.  We will be posting a video within the next month by Dr. Drumm showing his team at work in the laboratory, so you can see, firsthand, the inspiring work that is being done.

Mitchell Drumm, Ph.D.
Professor, Department of Genetics and Genome Sciences

Vice Chair of Translational Research
Director, The Research Institute for Children’s Health
Case Western Reserve University
Cleveland, Ohio

My lab is working on two strategies to deal with mutations in NAGLU, the gene that causes Sanfilippo.  One is to actually repair the mutation in a patient’s cells and the other is to add a functional copy of the gene to the cells.  The NAGLU enzyme, once made by the cell, must reach a part of the cell called the lysosome where it does its part to break down heparan sulfate.  Mitch has used the CRISPR/Cas9 system to engineer cells lacking the NAGLU enzyme to model Sanfilppo and is now testing the gene repair and gene supplementation strategies.  So far, the results are promising:  Adding back a normal copy of the gene provides enzyme activity to the cells, opening the door to testing the strategy in mice, looking not only for enzyme activity, but also positive effects on the disease.”  Mitch explains that his lab has added to the NAGLU enzyme part of a gene from jellyfish that makes the NAGLU enzyme glow, or fluoresce, so they can actually see it when using a special microscope.  His lab introduces the fluorescent version of NAGLU into Sanfilippo cells, just as they would in a gene therapy protocol, so they can not only see if the gene provides the needed NAGLU enzyme, but also visualize where it goes and how long it lasts.  In the picture, you can see cells grown in a dish (the grey globs that look like a bunch of frog eggs) in which the NAGLU-jellyfish protein is being made, as the ones that successfully took up the NAGLU gene glow orange.

Oh, The Memories We Are So Thankful For…..

Our Sweetheart Dinner Dances that would not have been possible without the expertise and talent of people like:

Gavin Spiers of the Drake Hotel
Marc Kaufman, The Ritz
Jamie Breslin, The Four Seasons, and finally
Michael Lerich and his talented group of musicians who were with us each and every year.

My friends, family and the Kentucky crew that made the silent auction beautiful and set up an annual event in itself that we looked forward to.

Memories of some of the sweethearts who attended will always bring a smile to our face —

A sweetheart who, just maybe, inspired breakdancing as it is today with his talented dance moves while on his back.  This same person, along with some tablemates, also created ballet with the Drake’s luggage cart.

The small but determined group that thought a trip to the Lodge for an after-party was a good idea – each and every year.

The dancing duo trying to get their knees to carry them up the Drake’s stairs the morning after.

The Fore Kirby golf outings with Kirby cocktails and friends.

The VERY wet 5K4 Kirby.

The Trivia Nights that overflowed with laughter and fun.

Cruisin’ for a Cure nights on Lake Michigan.

Deerfield High School students gathering to raise an astounding $52,000 for the Foundation.

LaGrange Highlands Elementary students sharing their talents for Kirby.

The LaGrange Highlands Women’s Club and its years of support.

Highlands Presbyterian Church and its members for always being there for us.

Merchants in Kirby’s hometown of Western Springs, including Casey’s Market, The Fruit Store, Kirschbaum’s Bakery, the Uptown Shop, Clever Girl and Vie Restaurant for always being there to contribute in whatever way was needed.

And Maas Auto too!

To the children within Kirby’s community who chose to make a stand for Sanfilippo with their purple lemonade stands.  We will never forget the joy we felt that day driving to meet you all, seeing your enthusiasm, with Kirby by our side, sharing some very special lemonade and sweet treats.

And to the gentleman, who never met Kirby, but chose to run the Chicago Marathon, his first, raising awareness and funds for the Foundation.  He finished the race injured by thinking of Kirby and the challenges she braved.  The following year, he ran a 10K with his wife, family and friends.  His words about fundraising and our Foundation will always be remembered.  “Small acorns grow into great oak trees.”

With Gratitude

To Dr. Elizabeth Neufeld

The Distinguished Professor Emerita, Biological Chemistry, at UCLA who was also the 1994 National Medal of Science honoree devoted much of her career to investigating Sanfilippo and potential treatments.  Her research and mentorship in the area of lysosomal storage disorders, of which Sanfilippo is one, is the basis for work being done today.  At 94 years old, although retired, she still attends conferences, sharing her brilliance with others in the field.

It was her words, back in 1995, that first inspired Brad and me.  She explained to us the reason rare diseases did not get the attention of other, more prevalent diseases was funding.  “The more of us that work on the disease, the faster a treatment will be found.”   Our mission became clear.  Thank you, Dr. Neufeld, for your inspiration and lifetime of work to help children like Kirby.

To our Board Members

The Foundation would not exist without you.  From my first telephone call to let each of you know of Kirby’s diagnosis and the path Brad and I had chosen, to the think tank formed, to our first Sweetheart just six months later, to today.  You’ve never left our sides nor hesitated to do whatever was needed.  With each of you sharing your talents and expertise, you guided us down a path to make the Foundation what it is today – impactful.   And something Brad and I will always be proud to have Kirby’s name and now legacy a part of.  Words cannot express what you have meant to us.  You are loved.

And to You

And to everyone reading this, our beloved Kirby’s legacy of a cure is within reach because of you and families that have joined our efforts over the years in honor of their children.  Together, we have created a formidable front against a disease we were all told was incurable.  Empowering brilliant research.   Brad and I thank each and every one of you for hearing of “a little four-year-old, blue-eyed bundle of joy with an infectious smile” who needed your help and you answered the call.  She had a disease no one really knew of at the time, but that didn’t matter to you.  What mattered was to help, even if it was just one little girl.  Today, rare diseases, like Sanfilippo, have the attention of many within the scientific community and bio tech companies worldwide.  Acorns to oak trees.  Thank you for helping us create this awareness and the hope families have today.  Kirby is smiling.

The comfort and peace we now feel within our hearts is a direct reflection of your support, commitment and compassion.

Our fond, heartfelt thanks.

Whether we hold these children in our arms or in our hearts, hope for their lives and legacies will continue to empower and prevail – always.

KirbyGram Winter 2021

KirbyGram Winter 2021

Dear Friends,

In 1995 Brad and I challenged a diagnosis and the words of a doctor by choosing hope for Kirby.  Advances were made as we learned the power of hope and the community that gathered to effect change. 

The Foundation was able to fund some basic steps toward a cure, such as automated gene sequencing for the NAGLU enzyme Kirby was lacking, which enabled scientists to identify mutations.  This led to the development of the genetically engineered synthetic gene, followed by a knock-out mouse model.

This work ultimately helped to include Sanfilippo in all the most promising methodologies of treatment as they emerged.

And over the years, other families, both here and abroad, heard of our work and joined in our efforts.  Together, we have created a formidable front against what we were all told was an incurable disease – all of us inspired by our children’s unbounded spirit and tenacity.

Working together with two of these families and their foundations, we were able to fund a natural history study that today still provides supportive data for clinical trials.

And along with Randall and Elisabeth Linton’s foundation in Canada, we funded the vector production for a human trial.

But with all of this success, what Brad and I did not think of was the reality of time.  The time it would take after initiating the work, the research and government approvals and raising the millions of dollars involved to bring a potential treatment from the laboratory to the patients.   For us, it was 19 years.  Thankfully, because of the basic science we funded and the advances that have been made throughout the years, this time frame has been greatly reduced. But still, days matter for children afflicted.

What Brad and I do know now is that hope endures – always.    He and I wish you all an abundance of hope. Because no matter what you encounter, it is hope that enables you to stand, hope that allows you to take that first deep breath empowering your strength and giving you the courage to continue and create change.  

But realize, as fellow parent Jennifer Seidman once wrote to me, hope is tricky.  It’s fluid – yet enduring.  In other words, your expectations of hope can be ever-changing.  And when I think of hope in that way, it is really what has enabled me to find a reason to smile each day, no matter the day, and look for gratitude.  

Finding that balance in our life is what helped us to navigate the expectations of our hope.  Our time spent with Kirby, as well as the time spent effecting change, both served to strengthen and inspire our resolve.  Both were important.  We’ve come to realize that creating those memories and giving Kirby the best life possible while doing what we did, and will continue to do for science, is what now gives us peace in our hearts.

This holiday season, please remember Kirby, smile and think of the Foundation and the children’s lives its work can impact.  

Brad and I wish you peace and joy.

Research Update

We continue to look for ways to accelerate research to ensure that hope shines bright for children afflicted worldwide.  With our commitment to Dr. Mitch Drumm and Case Western Reserve’s Research Institute for Children’s Health, we feel we are doing just that.

The Institute’s focus is on Sanfilippo and other rare diseases, and it uses proven, successful strategies while cultivating research expertise by championing young scientists – challenging them to be bold in the lab with their new and exciting ideas.  We can think of no better way of honoring our dear Kirby’s legacy of a cure and impacting the time so precious to children living with rare diseases today.

“I have been working on genetic diseases for nearly 40 years and over that time have seen advancements in science that change our understanding, provide new tools for us to use and create breakthroughs in medical treatments.  These advances are almost always unpredictable.  As Sue alluded, time is of the essence, but it is also the one variable we can’t control.  My approach is to make better use of the time we have by increasing the number of people trying to tackle problems.  The Foundation is helping me to engage young, energized scientists to work on Sanfilippo, not only accelerating the research toward treatments, but also ensuring that it is sustainable. We are enlisting the next generation of scientific minds so that the process will continue until we have reached our goals.

Our work in rare, genetic diseases focuses on fundamental problems, from identifying the gene involved, figuring out which cells in the body are contributing to the disease and then devising strategies to repair or replace the gene in the appropriate places.  For Sanfilippo, we know the gene and think we know the cells, thanks to work supported by the Foundation, but the latter steps need to be worked out.  To do so, we rely on cell culture systems, where we grow human cells in a petri dish to see if we can restore a gene or enzyme activity and then apply what we’ve learned to mouse models to determine if we can do the gene repair or enzyme restoration in the appropriate cells to an extent that will have clinical effect. 

We have generated versions of the NAGLU enzyme to which we joined a fluorescent protein so that we could track the protein in cells we wished to repair or otherwise provide NAGLU enzyme activity.  These “fusion proteins” have worked out well and seem to end up in the same location in cells as the native enzyme.  They are quite readily detected using our high-powered microscope that detects fluorescence.

Our most current challenge is that we could not find in our repertoire of laboratory cells any that don’t already make large amounts of the NAGLU enzyme, preventing us from seeing if our fusion protein maintains enzymatic activity.  To solve this, we are using a gene editing technique called CRISPR/Cas9 to create a model of Sanfilippo by disrupting the NAGLU gene.  This is also one of the technologies we will eventually test for its ability to repair mutations causing Sanfilippo.  We are currently sequencing the DNA of the cells and have several promising candidates to use for our studies.

Once these laboratory cell systems are vetted, our next steps are to see if we can restore NAGLU activity to them through gene replacement (putting in a normal copy of the gene) or gene repair by editing.  From there, we will begin our work on delivering these therapeutic systems into various cells in mice.  While we never feel we are moving fast enough, we do feel we’re moving in the right direction and are extremely thankful to the Foundation for including us in their mission.”

Mitchell Drumm, Ph.D. 
Professor, Department of Genetics and Genome Sciences

Vice Chair of Translational Research
Director, The Research Institute for Children’s Health
Case Western Reserve University
Cleveland, Ohio

Whether we hold these children in our arms or in our hearts, hope for their lives and legacies will continue to empower and prevail – always.

KirbyGram Winter 2019

KirbyGram Winter 2019

Latest from the KirbyGram


Dear Friends,
Brad and I know, as all parents do, that the depth of love for our children has no boundaries. What we chose not to dwell on after Kirby’s diagnosis, just before her fourth birthday, was the depth of our grief if we lost her. It was unimaginable, and there was so much that could be done to change the devastating outcome of Sanfilippo. The Foundation was formed, decades of fundraising, awareness, and in turn, expansion of research followed, including Sanfilippo in all the most promising methodologies of treatment. All of this, while watching Kirby capture the hearts of all those she met, rallying a community and inspiring determination with her unbounded personality filled with fortitude and grace and her ever-important question, “Happy?” Unfortunately, that unimaginable grief became a reality for Brad and me on October 22nd when our beloved Kirby passed away unexpectedly, yet peacefully, in her sleep.

Our hearts are broken.

The outpouring of sympathy was and continues to be overwhelming and shows us that, like her fortitude and will for happiness, her impact on others has no boundaries and will continue to influence. She will forever be our family’s inspiration and a beautiful face of hope. We thank all of you for your sympathy, for sharing your memories and for expressing how Kirby’s life radiates into yours. It is your stories and reflections, along with our memories,
that will help us as we begin our new journey. And, with your continued support of this Foundation and its mission, you will help us to ensure Kirby’s legacy – A Cure for Kirby.

With heartfelt gratitude,

Sue and Brad

Facebook and #GivingTuesday

For Kirby’s sister, Maggie, there wasn’t a second thought to using this opportunity to help. With her love for Kirby and her knack for all things digital, Maggie knew this fundraiser had success written all over it! Her many Facebook friends agreed and contributed more than $5,000 on last year’s #GivingTuesday held November 27th.

The Foundation Gives Thanks . . . 

To Donna Logan-Gabel and Nicholas Megofna, who designated the Foundation as their charity of choice in their employers’ United Way campaigns;

To Barbara Cummings for her generous donations in memory of Adele Orr Delisi and Judy Davis;

To Margaret Anderson for her donation in honor of Gail and Bill McCabe;

To Betty and Bruce Tompkin for their generous support of research in honor of Kirby;

To Jan and Don Matheny for their donation in honor of Donna and Matt Scotty;

To Beth and John Wilson, Brad’s brother and sister-in-law, for their donation through John’s employer’s JPMorgan Chase’s Good Works Workplace Giving Program;

To our secret Facebook Friends for donating to our mission;

To the Amazon shoppers who designate the Foundation as their charity of choice on   Amazon’s Smile Foundation has been donating .05% of your Amazon purchases to the Foundation.  We are sure Kirby is smiling down on this!

To Kirschbaum’s Bakery and Casey’s Market, both from Kirby’s hometown of Western Springs, for their continuous fundraising efforts using cash jars over the past 25 years.   And to the people of the community who filled them, the Wilsons thank you for filling their hearts with the warmth of your compassion for their daughter, your “hometown girl,” and

To all who donated to the Foundation in memory of Kirby, the Wilsons thank you for honoring their daughter’s life by helping them to turn others’ hope of a cure into a reality.

And, To The Families Working Together Toward a Cure . . .

To Betsy and Steve Fowler for their kind words and donation in fond memory of their daughter, Kimberly; To Barb Trocheck for her donation in loving memory of her daughter, Carley; To the many that donated in fond memory of dear Sydney Moff; To all who donated in memory of Arthur Kidwell, father of Dave Kidwell, and to the many family and friends who donated in memory of Anna and Dave’s daughter Ashleigh; To Danielle and Matthew Cuculic for their donations, as well as to their employer, the Humana Foundation,  for its matching gift honoring Danielle’s sisters, Brooke and Ashleigh Kidwell. To the Manafort Family, who honor the memory of Rhianna Logan by continuing to choose the Foundation as the benefactor of its annual golf tournament.   A $2,500 check was received in memory of sweet Rhianna; To the people who contribute to the Artisan Shop’s cash jar, as well as family and friends who donate to the Foundation, Rhianna’s parents, Cynthia and Gene Logan, give their heartfelt thanks for always remembering “Rhianna’s Hope” and Cynthia’s words, “Our work is not done.”    

Ashleigh Kidwell 

May 29, 1990 – January 2, 2019

Ashleigh Kidwell, daughter of Anna and Dave, sister to Danielle, Callie and Brooke, died on January 2nd at the age of 29. The Kidwells share Danielle’s remembrance of their dear daughter and sister.

“Ashleigh had a hard life, and one that was very unfair. Looking back through pictures, I realized and was reminded of how much Sanfilippo has taken from her- her abilities, her independence, her personality- slowly, over her almost 30 years. But going through pictures also reminded me that Ashleigh had a good life. There has been plenty of laughter, activity, and fun. We went camping, to the zoo, to the beach, hiking. School field trips, gymnastics classes. Family mountain camping trips to Colorado and Utah. She was a sister, daughter, girl scout, school student, gymnastics student. She loved music, musicals, and to sing. She was a daddy’s-girl.

Ashleigh- who we also called Ash, Nellie, or Nel- also gave us many things as a family. Even after Sanfilippo had taken much from her, caring for her kept us closer as a family. We learned teamwork. We ate the majority of our dinners together as a family. We spent more time together as a full family of six. We divide and conquer. We have definitely learned that sometimes when things get too crazy or ridiculous, all you can do is laugh. We learned all the words to Mary Kate and Ashley movies, to enjoy hearing Brooks and Dunn’s Boot Scootin’ Boogie and Tim McGraw’s I Like It, I Love It over and over again. For a while there we learned to strategically place ourselves between Ashleigh and any fire alarms, because for whatever reason she had to pull them, like a moth to a flame. She was on a first name basis with the fire department for her school!

Ashleigh will continue to be here with us through her impact on those who knew her. She changed all of us, and I’d say made all of us better. Having special needs sisters makes me more compassionate. More accepting. More understanding. Convinced me that the most important thing I can teach to my future children is to be inclusive. My parents initially got our dog Zoe for Ashleigh. Turns out she seemed indifferent, but Zoe will forever be my favorite dog, so thanks Ash for that! The first Christmas when my husband Matt and I were dating, he wrote cards to Ashleigh and Brooke, and reading his words to them is the first time I thought, “Yeah, I’m going to need to marry this guy.” So Ashleigh will always be a part of that memory, and so many other memories. She will always be a part of my life in so many ways.

This time, and losing Ashleigh so suddenly and unexpectedly, is obviously very hard, and I know we will continue to mourn her loss. However, I am also happy, excited, and relieved for her that she is free from all the burdens, limitations, sicknesses, and hardships placed on her in her time on earth. She was handed way more than any person should be asked to bear, and never complained. She was poked, prodded, pulled, lifted, carried, brought down, gradually lost skills and abilities, and the worst we ever got back from her was an occasional glare that said “can you please just leave me the heck alone”. It is comforting to know that she is with Jesus, and she can walk again, can talk again, can see, run, play, sing, can understand, can comprehend, can communicate. She finally gets to be the person she was always meant to be, always should have been. I will miss her here with us, but I also very much look forward to the time when I get to see her again, and get to know the real Ashleigh as she was always meant to be.”



Sydney Moff
May 6, 1989 – May 4, 2019

Theresa and Steve Moff of Williamsport, PA, lost their beautiful daughter Sydney, on May 4th at the age of 29. Her family, which includes brothers Stefan and Hunter, reflects:

“We lost our bright ray of sunshine. Her smile and laughter brightened
our world and will forever touch and brighten our hearts and souls.
Despite her illness, she took life on with gusto. She was up for anything.
Nothing was ever not worth experiencing. She also never complained
about her illness or any of the painful and exhausting hardships she had
to endure. We will forever remember her laughing, singing and dancing
her way through life. Even though in the end, her illness robbed her of
the ability to physically experience so many of her joys, you could still
feel it in her bones and see it in her eyes, especially at “cuddle time.”
Theresa remembers the words a dear friend spoke to her upon learning
of Sydney’s passing: “She told me not to think of everything that I had
lost by her dying but everything I had gained by having her in our lives.
Those words have so helped me focus on the good things, and there
were many. It has brought many smiles to my face and brought back
wonderful memories.”

Research Update

The Trials Continue

Jodie Gillon, Vice President, Patient Advocacy for Abeona Therapeutics, continues to update on the development of treatments, encouraging progress and enrollment opportunities in the trials for both Sanfilippo type A and B.

“We had the priviledge of hosting the The McGee Family in our Cleveland facility earlier this year. The opportunity to learn from families first-hand helps us design our clinical trials and education programs. Most of all, these interactions are a source for continued motivation as we get to see how every day counts. This was the first time we hosted grandparents and it was illuminating for us to hear the impact of not only witnessing your grandchild lose skills but the effect of watching your child suffer for years and the helplessness they feel.

Latest Data

On July 25, 2019, Abeona reported positive interim data from the Transpher A study. The data suggests that ABO-102 has a favorable safety profile and therapeutic potential for the treatment of MPS IIIA. Neurocognitive development was preserved in the three youngest patients enrolled in high-dose cohort 3 and they were tracking within normal age equivalent development 12-18 months after treatment. Robust and sustained biomarker improvements were seen across all dose cohorts, 8-24 months after treatment, and no product-related serious adverse events were reported in the study.

Abeona is currently enrolling eligible patients into Phase 1/2 clinical trials for MPS IIIA and IIIB

ABO-102 for MPS IIIA ABO-101 for MPS IIIB

Abeona is conducting global clinical trials to assess the safety and efficacy of gene therapies for patients with MPS IIIA (Transpher A) and IIIB (Transpher B). To be considered for enrollment in the Transpher A or the Transpher B studies, potential subjects must be between 6 months to 2 years of age or ≥2 years with cognitive Developmental Quotient (DQ) of ≥60. A full list of inclusion/exclusion criteria for each study is available at (MPS IIIA: NCT02716246; MPS IIIB: NCT03315182).

The Transpher A study is being conducted at clinical sites in the U.S., Spain, and Australia, while the Transpher B study has sites in the U.S, Spain, and France. Travel assistance is available for patients and their families enrolled in either study.

At, you can find a six-question survey to see if your child may be eligible for the Transfer A study. If the survey results suggest that your child may be eligible for the study, you will have the option to send your information to the nearest clinical study site for evaluation by a study investigator. Completing the survey does not mean a child is eligible; the doctor overseeing the clinical study at each site (principal investigator) will still need to evaluate and decide if your child can undergo screening for enrollment in the study. Only after the full screening process is complete at the site will the investigator be able to determine if the child is eligible to participate in the study.

ABO-102 for MPS IIIA

Study ABT-003 is enrolling patients with middle and advanced phases of MPS IIIA who may not be eligible for the Transpher A study. The clinical trial is evaluating a single-dose of ABO-102 that is delivered using an intravenously administered AAV9 vector. While there is no age requirement in this study, potential volunteers must have a cognitive DQ lower than 60 to be screened for enrollment. They must also be ambulatory, with or without assistance. A full list of inclusion/exclusion criteria for study ABT-003 is available at by searching ‘NCT04088734.’ You may also consider providing your child’s physician with this clinical trial identifier to help determine if they may be eligible for the study.

Reflections, Gratitude and a Life Filled with “Happy”

This KirbyGram is filled with the harsh reality for families such as ours. These children’s lives and those who went before them are important to recognize and honor. It’s part of what this Foundation has always done. Obviously, this year was personally devastating to our family. But, that being said, this Foundation’s beginning and decades of success, were built on hope, hope that allowed our family to stand up from the devastation of Kirby’s diagnosis and live our lives in the manner she so richly deserved – celebrating life and family and creating joy-filled memories. And now, we feel it is more important than ever to leave you this holiday season with that same joy-filled feeling, remembering our daughter in the light she so brightly showed for 28 years and ensuring we move forward in a manner that would bring that beautiful smile to her face.

Here are some of the happy feelings Kirby left with family and friends. We hope these words impact you, too, in some small way and most importantly, make you smile.

“She would look into your eyes, the eyes of her Mom, Dad and sister, her family, friends and visitors, and show them how much she loved them, without condition, without asking for anything in return, without saying a word. Just be, and be with me. Kirby gave us that gift of unconditional love. And isn’t that the greatest triumph of any life? To love and be loved, without limit, without reason, without words.”

“Kirby taught us the beauty of smiles, love and the strength of family.”

“She was a force that changed all of our lives for the better. Even through the darkest of pain, she taught us how to love. She made us believe that we could find joy in absolutely every day.”

“That’s the thing about experiencing death – it allows you to experience the most intense forms of love…..And it’s that love, cultivated by Kirby, that gives me the confidence that there will be lots of happy times ahead for all of us.”

“She gave us strength and purpose. We do not know for certain how long any of us have here and we cannot foresee the trials or misfortunes that will test us along the way. But I will tell you what we can do now for Kirby’s legacy is live our best lives with purpose and with love and most of all happiness. Let’s use each day to show each other how much we care, and let’s treat others with the kindness and respect that we wish for ourselves.”

“She taught me so much about life and all the small wonderful things that should be celebrated each day. Thank you, Kirby, for helping teach my kids about acceptance, love and compassion for others.”

“Kirby gave us the gift of perspective. Every day that Kirby was with us was a blessing. She reminded us that most of our problems are not really problems…be grateful for what we have…choose joy over gloom, because ultimately, life is so fragile.”

“Kirby gave us the example of perseverance and inner strength. She confronted and fought battles that would have crushed many of us. She showed us what it is to be strong, because strength is not just found in being the biggest, the toughest, or the fastest. Strength is found in one who keeps going, keeps trying, day after day, and long after others give up.”

“Simply put, Kirby refused to give up or succumb to changes she experienced by withstanding Sanfilippo and fought back with amazing fortitude. Strength is found in one who knows success isn’t always big and flashy, but knows that sometimes the greatest success is found in the tiniest of victories.”

“Hope is a tricky word. It is fluid. Enduring when you know to look for it. Sue, Brad, sister Maggie and nephew Anthony know hope. It is in their hearts, even today. Kirby put it there. The future, tomorrow, other families’ hope is here because Kirby was.”

“Because of Kirby: I am more appreciative and accepting of life’s simple gifts; I’ve seen how big love can be; I’ve learned every child deserves every opportunity; I’ve learned to not worry about how to communicate, just do it and you’ll find your connection to others no matter how different our lives are; I try to be ever present; I understand that it is possible to enjoy life, be happy and spread love despite your circumstances; and I know all the words to Barney’s “I Love You.”

“My favorite day of those summers was always the first day back. Kirby Derbs would watch me for a few moments, and then I saw that moment. The moment when she saw me…The tilt of her head and that mischievous smile. I’ve lived lots of places, and I’ve met lots of people. People look, but not everyone really sees you. Kirby gifted that to me, and I am forever grateful. That tilt of the head, when she recognized whatever was inside me that was connected to her…I will cherish that forever. And I’m almost 40, but I still stomp through a puddle sometimes. Just because. And I always smile.”

“Be in the moment, love those around you, hold each other close, and look for a greater cause. Choose to find joy in your life, and by all means, be happy. That is what Kirby stood for.”

Kirby would ask, “Happy?” And she meant it. She wanted to know if we were just as happy as she was, because that was how she lived her life.